Lack of resolution drives couples apart.
Maintaining a cooperative, understanding, and romantic relationship is challenging.
For most couples, life has a way of driving partners apart rather than together. Work, children, financial issues, in-laws, and other stressors can take priority, leaving little time to resolve the problems before they become a wedge that pushes you further apart.
The best approach to maintaining a viable relationship is to work on resolving differences and conflicts before they cause permanent damage.
Seeing resolution is where couples therapy can help.
Forgiveness is hard to achieve sometimes.
Circumstances make it challenging to forgive someone who hurt us, especially if we don’t know how to start. The cause of those circumstances may result from an inability to communicate, constant criticism, differences of opinion on child rearing, or infidelity.
My role as a couples therapist is to explain methods that can enhance a better understanding of your partner’s thought processes, beliefs, and heart, allowing you to forgive and heal from the encounter. Creating that understanding starts with open communication and respect for each other’s feelings and beliefs.
Forgiveness becomes easier when you receive attention, affection, and approval from the person who hurt you.
I will help guide you in a direction that leads to a deeper, safer, and more satisfying relationship.
Sometimes couples can get stuck in a rut.
Sometimes, the relationship becomes stagnant and ceases to grow, and you find yourself treading water in a sea of mediocracy.
I can help revitalize and bring excitement into the relationship and help you recover that desire and understanding you had at the beginning.
You will learn the Double Loop communication technique, which allows you and your partner to understand each other intellectually and emotionally.
Through this technique and others, you and your partner will gain the courage to be vulnerable and risk sharing intimate details about yourselves that generally are difficult. When couples share deep intimacy, they can grow closer and create a new world of intimacy and excitement.
This alternative is better than treading water any day.
Rejuvenate your relationship.
Couples come to me with many problems – loneliness, lack of understanding, feeling hurt, or lacking trust for each other.
My role is to help you repair the relationship and teach you healthy communication and listening skills to enhance understanding and love for each other.
Through this process, you will regain your trust in one another, feel the strength to be vulnerable, share your authentic selves, and see the beauty in each other while growing more deeply in love.
Let’s work together to bring you closer and help you resolve the differences and disagreements that pulled you apart.
Reach out to schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation.